you the Trick to go around this (and this is whit all Ebay-store Buyings) let the Sender not Include the bill on the out side but let it be shipped as a Normal packet... by doing this you will not get taxxed (atleast in the EU)
by doing this your item will be sent as if it was a normal letter and not as an object...
i do this all the time whit parts for my car and for my Friends... buy it in the states and than ship to the netherlands... just a blanco box whit a sent and resive adress